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Your Teen's 10 Worst Online Habits

 
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Your teens know how to use the Internet. They've been using it since they were old enough to talk. But do they know how to use it responsibly, without compromising their safety or just plain being rude or irritating to others? If your teens are online, which they undoubtedly are, they need to be aware of committing these 10 Internet faux pas.

4 Obvious reasons to be positive online that everyone should know

 
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In a world where cyberbullying is commonplace behavior and online rudeness is par for the course, here are 3 simple arguments for your teen to avoid being negative online and be more positive in his posts and texts.

7 Kids Safety Questions to Ask Your Blogging Children

 
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For many teens blogs are a creative outlet, a way to develop a technical skill set, and a fun way to express themselves.

Does your child have a blog? And if so, what Internet safety questions to you need to be asking your blogging kids.

Question #1: What is your blog about?

Your child's first answer will be “I don't know... stuff.” But ask again with interest. Is it an online journal? A site dedicated to their favorite celebrity? A place for their favorite book and movie reviews? If they are very secretive about the basic contents of their blog, it may be time to get concerned.

Question #2: Can I read your blog?

A teen who hesitates to let you read their blog isn't necessarily doing anything inappropriate – but it could be a sign that they are sharing too much private or personal information.

Question #3: What do you think your blog says about you ?

This question can help you figure out your child's motivations in setting up the blog in the first place. It can also help them to re-examine how the blog's content might look to others, and how it might reflect on them personally.

Question #4: Are there any privacy settings on your blog?

For safety's sake, all kids should have some type of security on their blog. It's easy to find blogs that can be password protected or accessed by invitation only. If your child's blog isn't private, find out why not.

Question #5: Would you feel comfortable with anyone reading your blog?

Even private blogs could be read by someone other than the intended audience. How would your child feel if their blog was visited by their teachers, classmates, grandparents, or future employers?

Question #6: Does anyone else have the password?

Find out whether anyone else contributes or can make changes to your child's blog. Does your child share the password with anyone?

Question #7: Just from visiting your blog, what would a stranger know about you?

This question can help kids read their blogs with fresh eyes. Do they name their friends, their school, their hometown, or their favorite hangouts? Chances are that your blogging kids are revealing more identifying information about themselves than they realize.

Never Too Early to Teach Internet Safety for kids

 
uKnowKids ipadYesterday my kindergartener came home and told me how much fun she had using the iPad at school. Their teacher taught them how to use an app that helped them draw letters in the proper sequence with their fingers. 

Lots of school districts are using iPads, Twitter, or Skype in the classroom. It's a bit of a debate, but I generally agree with integrating new technologies into education. Facebook and iPads are great mediums for educators to use to connect with their students, because these tools are inevitably going to be – and sometimes already are – an integral part of these kids' lives. Googling is a skill I think needs to be learned along with looking things up in a dictionary or encyclopedia.

The age of online literacy is getting younger and younger. A friend of mine just bought his 4-year-old an iPad packed with educational apps teaching everything from sight words to the solar system, just so he could “keep up.”

With such early exposure to technology, it's that much more important to start teaching Internet safety at an even earlier age. Kids may be comfortable with the technology and know how to use it, but that doesn't mean they can always think critically about their online actions and make good decisions about using the Internet socially.

The fact that our kids are so tech-savvy at a young age can fool us: it's kind of like the tendency to treat a child who is very big and tall for his age as older than he really is. Have you had the Internet safety conversation with your kids yet?

- Jenny Evans is a mother of four and a blogger specializing in parenting, childhood, and family issues.

Kids Safety When Blogging

 
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Tweens and teens often spend hours grooming their blog or Facebook profile until it perfectly reflects their personalities. Facebook for kids is growing in popularity as a form of self expression and communication. In fact, that is today's teenager's preferred form. But is there a way for your kids to do it safely?

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